no after no

the update that I just knew would look differently than any other update i’ve given!

transfer #6 failed.

everything went absolutely perfect for our carrier. She tolerated the medicine so well (aside from the bruising and sore tush from the shots), her lining was 10+ and trilaminar, her progesterone levels were perfect.

so what went wrong?

we don’t really know. Our doctor thinks it was an embryo problem. We’ve N E V E R had an embryo problem. They’re genetically tested and all normal but she said this specific one thawed weird (even though it was graded a 5AA before and after thaw). The baby cells were perfecto but the placental cells had kinda collapsed over. She said that’s the only thing she could think of as a “reason” for the failure.

baby t was embryo #11 so we named it, “Elle”. We found out it was a girl.

so what’s next? The question I’ve been asked most – will we try again? And my answer is, of course! Jason and I just need time mentally and emotionally to get ready for another one. Our carrier needs time physically (and sweet thing, emotionally too) to prepare for another one.

but let me say this. We aren’t giving up until baby t is here. Eating, sleeping, pooping, and crying!